Questions we young wonder women ask ourselves most frequently are:
1. When is the right one going to come along?
2. Does that perfect guy even exist?
3. Why don't I have a boyfriend NOW?!
There are actually answers to all these questions! Lets begin with the first question.
We always wonder when the right guy is going to come into our lives. I'm going to give you something practical to think on; consider your age. If you're 13 and you've got a boyfriend or your obsessed with a crush, there is a huge possibility that he isn't going to be the love of your entire life. A lot of girls nowadays in this situation seriously believe that they will be with that one guy forever. That it's true love. Guess what? They brake up with that boy a week, a month, a year later. Girls don't know the true meaning of "love" anymore. Neither do guys. Sorry, but its the truth. Okay here's the deal; the right guy will come into your life at the right time. God doesn't make mistakes, so when he puts that perfect guy into your path, it will be at the right time and place. And girls, make sure the #1 thing you look for in a guy is this: he should love Jesus Christ with all his heart, soul, and mind. That is the most important thing you should look for in a guy.
Lets move on to the second question; Does that perfect guy really exist? For this, I want you to grab a piece of paper or open up Microsoft Office Word on your computer. Title the paper "What I Want in my Future Husband or Boyfriend". For number one write down: 1. He must love the LORD with all his heart, soul, mind, and strength; he must be a STRONG Christian. The rest of the list you can add anything you want to about what you want in your future husband or boyfriend. Here's my list so you can use it as an example:
2. I want him to love and respect his parents because then I will know he will love and respect me.
3. He needs to respect my family. I want him to like hanging around my brothers. I want him to be able to laugh with my parents and be able to enjoy spending time with my whole entire family.
4. He needs to he a real man. He cannot be a sissy or act even a little gay. He needs to be able to work hard, and be able to take things like a man.
5. He should have a respectful view of me and other women. He should wait for me to hug him, or hold hands with him. Or ask my permission to do those things.
6. A sense of humor would be awesome. My family is always joking around and teasing each other. He would have to be able to joke around right along with us
That's my list! Now, post in the comments box what your list is!
Now, you might look at your list and think: "Oh my goodness, this is a lot to ask for...is there a guy out there that actually has all of this?" The answer is YES. God has a special guy picked out just for you with ALL these traits. They key is to be patient and wait for God to place him in your life. DON'T EVER SETTLE FOR LESS THAN WHAT IS WRITTEN DOWN ON YOUR LIST. EVER! Its not worth it.
The third and final question is the one I ask myself the most often. Why do I not have a boyfriend right now?! I had to learn this question over a period of a few years. I always asked myself, "How come guys don't like me?" "Am I not pretty enough?" "Am I not good enough?" "Is something wrong with me?" I slowly came to the realization that it really wasn't any of those things. The reason I didn't have a boyfriend was because God was protecting me. God has a guy out there for me and the LORD is saving me for a guy that will treat me with respect and who will treat me right. That boy might be in my life right now! Who knows!
So, if you don't have a boyfriend, and you want one right now, just remember that God is protecting you because he wants the very BEST for you. That perfect guy is out there. God will clear the way for you to be with him, in HIS good time. :)
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